Here’s why small talk can save you from betrayal or being abandoned: Most would rather skip the boring stuff and be real, I get it. But this overlooks the #1 reason we need small talk: It's not just about the weather; it's how you tell if some will betray you or if they are trustworthy. When you’re talking about boring things, watch to see if they can be normal, express empathy, pay attention, listen, and ask real questions. Think of it like you’re dipping your toes in the water. Small talk is a