Today, Chris and I are celebrating 29 years of marriage ❤️ And here’s one of the most important lessons I’ve learned that has transformed my marriage… You can’t make another person happy. You can’t force them to grow, or change, or do the work. What you CAN do is focus on yourself. Focus on becoming the happiest, healthiest version of YOU. Because when you take responsibility for your own growth and joy, you bring that back into your relationship. That’s how you go the distance with someone. Tha